Money! There's your answer! That's what brings us bliss! The
real key to all happiness is money! Money means food, drink, and possessions,
three-dimensional objects that serve our animal needs and desires. Money is
very basic.
When you consider our society, you have to forget Maslow's
lofty goal of self-actualization. Society is basic. It limits us to making
choices on that rudimentary level. The upper limit of our society is security.
It's the highest priority of our government. Look at the money we spend on
defense. Look at how often we make decisions based on what we fear. How high up
are those behaviors on the almighty hierarchy?
When we respond to Maslow's inventory questions, most of us just
lie our way up. We already know the "right" answers, and instead of
being truthful, we make the choices that make us look good. To create the
impression that we care about higher things in life, we cheat. We do it on
Maslow's inventory, and we do it all the time in real life.
"Do you care about other less fortunate people?"
Here's the lie: "Why yes, I do care, very much."
Ha! Here's the justification for the lie: "But I care
more that they become self-sufficient, like me."
In our society, here's the "basic" truth: "I
take care of myself and mine. The next person has to do the same. Care for
yourself! Shave and shower! Get a job!"
The truly self-actualized among us tell the truth too, and
it can be a bit of a shock, because some of it is going to sound a little like
it comes from a Maslow "basic" personality: "Yes, I care, and I
believe we have to provide a safety net for the least fortunate and most
irresponsible citizens of this country. But let's not give them too much: A
little apartment and the bare essentials, a jail cell that they carry the key
to, a place where they can go instead of standing next to the on ramp on I-90
with a sign asking for a handout. When the cops see someone like that, they
should take him to his cell. We need to provide counseling for such people
also, provide choices that force them to clean up and get jobs, and if they
have psychological or physical problems, we need to help them get over them so
they can start pulling their own weight! And if they can't take care of
themselves, and if they need to be institutionalized, well, we need to make
sure it happens!"
I would maintain that a vast difference exists between these
two positions, but I would also maintain that they both arrive at very similar
conclusions. And yes, the "basic" confrontation is brutal. The
"self-actualized" approach, however, doesn't exactly present its
antithesis. It's certainly no bleeding heart about the plight of the poor and
destitute.
I also maintain that Maslow's blunt instrument, his
"inventory," based on questions and responses, is utterly incapable
of discerning the differences.
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